Sunday, November 18, 2018

Mother's Day

Mother's Day was in March in England.  Alex was still gone, but the kids picked up the slack.  They made cards for me, Nathan cleaned up the house while I was at New Beginnings, and they made dinner for me.  It was fast Sunday at church, so we didn't eat breakfast or lunch, but they made me breakfast for dinner.  Jared made the bacon, Owen did the eggs, and Weston made jelly sandwiches.  It was perfect!  Owen made a survival kit at school to give to me.  He said that he was the one that stretches me to my limit.  True.  While they do sometimes stretch me to my limit, they are good kids, and I'm grateful they made my day special.  

Saturday, November 17, 2018

New Beginnings

New Beginnings was our biggest activity of the year in Young Women's: an opportunity to do an introduction to Young Women's for the girls coming into the program this year.  It also is an opportunity to focus on and talk about the young women values and theme.  In addition to the young women, all of the parents are invited, as well as the young women leaders, the Bishop, and any girls that turn 12 this year.  The theme for the year is "Peace in Christ", so the theme we chose for New Beginnings was "Peace in Christ Helps me Live Happily Ever After."  We incorporated Disney princesses into the talks about the young women values - faith, divine nature, individual worth, knowledge, choice & accountability, good works, integrity, and virtue.  Each of the young women chose one of the values (and princess) and gave a short talk.  They did a great job!  

The young women also sang "Peace in Christ" - the theme song for the year.  I got to play the piano for that song.  


We listened to President Uchtdorf's talk "Your Happily Ever After".  It went really well with our theme. 

Here are some of my favorite parts from his talk:   

“Once upon a time” promises something: a story of adventure and romance, a story of princesses and princes. It may include tales of courage, hope, and everlasting love. In many of these stories, nice overcomes mean and good overcomes evil. But perhaps most of all, I love it when we turn to the last page and our eyes reach the final lines and we see the enchanting words “And they lived happily ever after.”
Isn’t that what we all desire: to be the heroes and heroines of our own stories; to triumph over adversity; to experience life in all its beauty; and, in the end, to live happily ever after?
Today I want to draw your attention to something very significant, very extraordinary. On the first page of your Young Women Personal Progress book, you will find these words: “You are a beloved daughter of Heavenly Father, prepared to come to the earth at this particular time for a sacred and glorious purpose.”1
Sisters, those words are true! They are not made up in a fairy tale! Isn’t it remarkable to know that our eternal Heavenly Father knows you, hears you, watches over you, and loves you with an infinite love? In fact, His love for you is so great that He has granted you this earthly life as a precious gift of “once upon a time,” complete with your own true story of adventure, trial, and opportunities for greatness, nobility, courage, and love. And, most glorious of all, He offers you a gift beyond price and comprehension. Heavenly Father offers to you the greatest gift of all—eternal life—and the opportunity and infinite blessing of your own “happily ever after.”
"...In each of these stories, Cinderella, Belle, and the miller’s daughter have to experience sadness and trial before they can reach their “happily ever after”...In stories, as in life, adversity teaches us things we cannot learn otherwise. Adversity helps to develop a depth of character that comes in no other way. Our loving Heavenly Father has set us in a world filled with challenges and trials so that we, through opposition, can learn wisdom, become stronger, and experience joy...It is your reaction to adversity, not the adversity itself, that determines how your life’s story will develop...Enduring adversity is not the only thing you must do to experience a happy life. Let me repeat: how you react to adversity and temptation is a critical factor in whether or not you arrive at your own “happily ever after.”

"Be strong and of good courage. You are truly royal spirit daughters of Almighty God. You are princesses, destined to become queens. Your own wondrous story has already begun. Your “once upon a time” is now."

I found a website that already had pictures of the Disney princesses with the values and a quote from the movie, so I just had to print those out.  I did have to come up with a synopsis of how the Disney princess could relate to the young women values, as an aid to the young women in preparing a short talk.  Here is an example of that for Cinderella:  

Cinderella had faith and kept believing in her dreams,
despite her hardships in life.  She lost her mother and father, and then
had to suffer abuse and be a servant for her wicked step-mother
and step-sisters. She was patient in suffering, worked hard, and she
showed courage and kindness.  With help from her fairy godmother
and her friends, she was able to make her dreams come true. 

Use the quote and value description on the front of this card,
the comments above, and your own experiences to
present a short talk (less than 3 minutes) about FAITH.  Think
about how faith has helped you in your life or how you
have progressed in faith.      

I spent quite a bit of time making things for the evening:  invitations, cardboard purses and heels, paper flowers (52 roses and 117 forget-me-nots), pretty glitter vases, bracelets, paper lanterns (to resemble the ones in "Tangled"), the princess values framed, and the cake.  Besides cake, fruit, and some other snacks, we had Schloer, which is similar to Martinelli's (those are the drinks you see on the table:  non-alcoholic!).  I also had to order the white tablecloths because the church didn't have any.  We also had to order the pretty plates, utensils, and the plastic easels for the pictures.  We found the pretty glass cups already in the cupboard.  It was a ton of work to put it all together, but it turned out great!  

We only had one unfortunate thing that evening - after we had sent out invitations to our activity, another invitation was extended to the older girls to attend another activity the same time as ours.  A couple of the girls chose to go to that activity instead... we missed them!  Other than not being able to get everyone to attend, the night went really well. 

Each of the girls had several things to take home with them, including a bouquet of flowers!



school things

Early in March was World Book Day, where the kids got to dress up as characters from a book.  We forgot about it until 10 minutes before it was time to leave for school.  So Savannah pulled out her Rapunzel costume (from Halloween) and we whipped up costumes from Dr. Seuss.  Their hair needs a bit of work, but I only had a few minutes to make them.  


Nathan put together a science project, with the idea of testing different seeds in an enclosed ecosystem.  I don't recall what the results were, but he was successful at growing plants in the enclosed system without having to water them at all.  I was impressed!


Savannah continued to draw and write all year.  I thought it was cute that she wrote a letter to her best friend (who moved away during the year...).  We weren't able to send it, because we didn't have an address, but it was sweet of her to make something for her friend.  The last picture is of Rapunzel with some of the words to the song in the movie "Tangled" - "...flower gleam and glow, let your power shine..."  She is so smart and doing well at sounding out words and trying to write them.  


Thursday, November 15, 2018

Off in the deep blue sea...

Alex left us there in England for nearly 6 weeks to do work in Antarctica.  I'm not going to talk about his work or experiences, but wanted to share some of his photos.  They are pretty amazing!








silly faces and Valentine's day

Random silly selfies...


Alex was gone for Valentine's Day, but we enjoyed a nice breakfast and chocolate cake without him.  The night before, Jared helped me make some paper flowers for the upcoming Young Women's New Beginnings, so it was nice to have a pretty bouquet of flowers on the table.  Nevermind that they were paper, nor that we didn't even have a vase to put them in...

We put together a puzzle that day as well.  It was out-of-this-world!  😃


Manchester

The first Saturday in February we headed to Manchester to the Lego Discovery Centre and Sealife Aquarium.  We didn't tell the kids where we were going - just let it be a surprise.  They were pretty excited when they realized what they were doing that day.  We didn't ruin Weston's weekend after all... 

It wasn't very exciting for Nathan and Jared, but they were good sports.  They enjoyed the laser maze and the 3D movie.  We all enjoyed the aquarium.  Savannah eventually had fun too, but it took her a while to realize there were fun things for girls.  She had a sour face for a while, not finding any girl Legos or rides.  It was true that it seemed to be geared more towards boys, with superheroes, boy Legos, police cars, and rides that typically boys would be more attracted to.  She did find one Lego Friends sign and a few girl Legos.  And she eventually tried the play area and loved the balls. 

When she tried out the police cars, she couldn't figure out how to steer properly and kept driving into the wall! 















snow days

We got snow in Durham in January and February.  It wasn't enough to cancel school in January, but the layer of snow on everything was pretty.  We tried to do a little bit of sledding with the first snow (on cardboard).  We also visited the Cathedral again and saw Durham Castle for the first time.  We had to take a picture of Weston by the sardines sign downtown, since he loves sardines.  





The end of February, we got a lot more snow, with enough this time to get a couple of days off school.  The kids were excited to make a snowman and have a snowball fight.  I was glad not to walk to school in the snow.  The day that the snow first started, I had to pick the kids up from school.  I stood outside for 10 minutes waiting for the kids to come out, while getting pelted by bits of sleet.  It was sunny and not snowing when I left the house, so I didn't think to take an umbrella with me to shield me from sleet!  By the time I walked 10 minutes there and stood waiting for 10 minutes, it was sleeting.  And then we had to walk home in it too.  That really did me in - so cold to have bits of sleet hitting your face.  It snowed most of the weekend.  Church was cancelled.  Nathan and I walked over to the grocery store on Saturday because we were pretty much out of food (and I didn't want to try to drive in the snow or try to get out of our culdesac, where the snow was deeper).  We each carried a couple big bags of groceries about a 1/2 mile in the snow.

 Nathan and Jared's school asked for volunteers on Sunday to come shovel the school parking lot and pathways.  I'm not sure who actually went and did that, but despite quite a bit of snow still on the ground, they had school again on Monday.  They aren't quick to call off school for snow.  I guess Nathan and Jared can now tell stories of when they had to walk 3/4 of a mile to school in the snow.  And even though half of the students and teachers couldn't make it in to school, they still had to stay at school.  Some of the buses couldn't even make it, but apparently those that walked to school or made it in still had to stay.  The boys weren't happy about that.  

Alex missed the February snow days, because he was in a bit of snow in Antarctica... he wasn't too sympathetic, because every day was a snow day for him! 

You can get an idea of how deep the snow was if you look at the picture of the fence behind Jared (from the first evening) compared to the next day (1st and last photos below).  The kids were loving it!  Me, not so much... but nice to get a break from taking the kids to school.  


Savannah and I enjoyed watching from inside!  


So funny when he realizes the camera is on him, but thinks I'm taking a picture...


There are always some tears with snowball fights...