Thursday, January 24, 2019

Halloween festivities

We had to carve the pumpkins the kids got at the pumpkin patch!


Weston wanted to be an orc for Halloween, which presented a challenge, since it's hard to find orc costumes.  I ended up coming across an old lady mask at the thrift store that I thought could work.  Weston showed me this picture of the orc, so I did my best to create a costume. I had to get out the scissors and black paint to make this lady look more orc like.  She did have a pretty good start already, but we had to get rid of the rosy cheeks and pink lips... some of the neck became ears. 



Jared made this spider decoration, with a little bit of help from Savannah (who really wanted Halloween decorations).  We had a real spider in our front bush - I noticed that people were stopping to look at it. 

There were some really cool decorations in our neighborhood.  Our neighbors always have great decorations - theirs are the first two pictures below.  I took some pictures of some of the other decorations as we were trick-or-treating.  Weston still doesn't like candy, so he refused to go trick-or-treating.  He stayed at our neighbors house and helped scare the big kids that came by. 


Jared caught up with some of his friends from elementary school.  Most of them go to another junior high now, so he doesn't see them very often.  He was happy to catch up for a while.  Savannah was pretty happy with her candy stash. 


We went to the annual Halloween party put on by our good friends Julie and Donald.  It was pirate themed this year, so I decided I could probably come up with a costume pretty easily.  And I actually used some temporary black hair color.  I used some on Savannah too, since she was Snow White (and didn't like her wig).  It was a great party, as usual!  Lots of yummy food and pirate themed activities.  Nathan ran the Captain Hook booth, where the kids tried to toss rings on hooks.  There was also a sand pit to dig for buried treasure, balloon swords, and other fun things.  The kids loved it!  What was also amazing was the large pirate ship in the middle of the yard.  With the blue lights, it looked like ocean waves. 


 I did edible gold spray paint on Oreos to make them look like gold coins.

  

After the party, I posted a picture of me with the dark hair on FaceBook.  I just said that I decided to go dark...pirate dark.  Most people thought I had really dyed my hair black!  It's okay... but I'll keep my red hair. 


Field trips and such

Owen got to take a field trip with Alex to Santa Cruz Island in September.  
Savannah's superstar week was in October, for which she got to create a poster and take home Bono the monkey for one week.  
 She was very excited to introduce Bono to her stuffed animals. 

I got to chaperone a field trip with Owen in October.  It was a beautiful day to visit a botanic garden. 





Owen, Weston, and Savannah got to visit the local pumpkin patch in October.  I got to go with Weston and Savannah's classes.


Wednesday, January 23, 2019

September sports and such

I decided to chop my hair off in September.  Occasionally I just get tired of looking at the same thing in the mirror.  The responses I got from the kids were pretty funny.  Savannah was mad at me, Nathan said it made me look old, Jared said that I look younger, and Owen & Weston didn't notice anything different.  Weston asked if I got new eyelashes!



Savannah had great fun at the back to school picnic - she loves her friends! 

 I curled her hair for picture day, and she was so pretty!  


Jared went on a scout camp out.  One of the highlights was seeing a snake. 

Soccer started right away the end of August and went through mid November.  I had hoped to get out of coaching since I had so many other things to do, but they were begging for coaches right before the season started.  It was Savannah's first year to play, so I decided I would coach her team.  She was the youngest one on her team and likely the youngest of all the U7 girls since her birthday is late December.  They changed the divisions, where if you turned 6 anytime before the end of the year, you were on U7.  So even though she was 5 all through the season, she wasn't in the U6 division. 

Our team chose the "Purple Grapes" as the team name.  It was hard to come up with practices for the girls to keep their interest and to improve their skills, but we only had practice once a week.  The toughest thing for me at the beginning was learning everyone's name.  A few of the girls looked really similar.  All of them had blond or light brown hair.  I did learn their names though, and we had some pretty good players.  We couldn't seem to win very many games though (even though we didn't officially keep score).  I was hoping that Savannah would score a goal during the season, but she wasn't able to.  She was lucky to get some touches on the ball.  She did get out there and go for the ball when she wanted to.  She tuckered out in practice sometimes, and the only way to get her to play was to tell her she could try to take the ball away from someone on either team. 

Savannah looked forward to getting snacks at the end of each game. 

Nathan was a referee this year for Savannah's team.  He decided it was pretty tough to do the young kids, because he had to tie shoes, tell them where to go, and deal with taking turns on the kicks and throw-ins.  After the first game, he decided he would take the referee training for the older kids.  He did that and then did the lines on the older kids games.  He has to earn community service hours for high school, so this was a good service opportunity to earn those.   
I made certificates to give the girls at the end of the season party.  I gave Savannah the Big Five award, since she had to be the big five year old playing out there.  We had cupcakes too! 

 The way they did the divisions also affected Owen, who had to play U12, since he turned 10 before the end of the year.  Any 10 (or turning 10) and 11 year olds were in U12.  Owen had a player on his team that was almost 2 years older than him, because he turned 11 in January of 2018 (and Owen turned 10 in December).  Owen would have done better on a U10 team, since he was 9 throughout the season.  He still had fun though.  His coach recognized Owen at the end of the year for always having a smile on his face.  Yep!  Owen's team did pretty well.  They didn't make it in the top bracket at the end of the season, but they won their bracket and got a big trophy for it.  Owen was the blue team, named "The Unicorns of the Sea" (sometimes they called themselves Narwhals, which I thought sounded better, but they mostly stuck with the Unicorns of the Sea.)  

Jared's team was green, the Unripe Bananas.  They had a good season, getting 3rd or 4th in their league.  They did well enough to make it in a post season tournament, which still hasn't happened due to recent rain.  His tournament is supposed to be this weekend now (4th Saturday in January). Someone on the team offered Go Bananas shirts for a small fee, so I was happy to get a t-shirt.  It turns out it's really soft and comfy too, so I like wearing it.   


None of the kids scored any goals this season, but I loved watching them play.  I'm glad they were busy and involved in a sport.  Weston didn't want to play this year, but hopefully he'll play next year.  It was tough enough dealing with 3 different schedules though.  I might have to coach again next year just to be able to plan 1 practice around the others... I waited until I knew Jared's and Owen's schedules to pick a day for Savannah's practice. 

I did a lot of driving back and forth, particularly when Alex was out of town for September or other times.  Jared practiced on M and F from 4:00-5:30pm, Owen practiced on M and W from 5:00-6:15pm, and Savannah's practice was on Tuesdays 4:45-5:45.  Jared and Owen's practices were about 10 minutes away from each other, and Jared's practice was 7 minutes from home and Owen's practice took about 12 minutes to get there.  So on Mondays, sometimes we dropped Jared off at 4:00, then came home for 30 minutes, then dropped Owen off at 5:00, went to pick up Jared, dropped him off at home and then picked up Owen.  I would spend a little over an hour driving in the car back and forth.  When Alex was available, he'd pick up Jared (and sometimes I stayed at Owen's practice so I didn't drive back and forth).  On Wednesdays, things were even more crazy because we had scouts and youth activities in the evening.  Owen had scouts at 6:45 at someone's home, so he would often go straight from soccer practice to scouts.  Alex was usually gone to take the others to the church at 7:00 by the time I got home.  Thursdays and Sundays were my only day off from soccer.  Saturdays were always really busy, with 3 games and whatever game Nathan was refereeing.  Unfortunately, I missed quite a few of Jared and Owen's games because Savannah's games were scheduled at the same time. 

Soccer season is crazy - I'm glad we made it through another season!

September birthdays

Another birthday!  Made breakfast and dinner, cookies, and cake.  Alex and I went out for lunch.  We don't usually get each other gifts, but he needed some new clothes... 


It was my 40th birthday this year!  Alex threw a small surprise party for me.  I figured something was up when, after Jared's soccer game, Alex asked if I wanted to get cleaned up (to go out after Owen's game).  I said I was planning to get cleaned up after the soccer games, particularly if we were just going out for ice cream.  I was okay doing that in my "Go Bananas" t-shirt.  Alex kept bugging me about taking a shower and wearing some different clothes.  And then Jared swept the back porch and was cleaning up the back yard, so I knew they were getting ready for something.  So I wasn't surprised when I walked in the door after Owen's game and there was a party for me.  One of our good friends put up decorations while we were at the game.  They also prepared all the food.  It was  sports themed (soccer mom), with a concession stand, sports banner, and whistles.  There were hot dogs, chips, fruit, popcorn, sugar cookies, soda, gatorade, and cupcakes.  Lots of yummy junk food.  The guests were few in number, but it was just right - not overwhelming.


getting settled in

Meanwhile... back at home, I attempted to put our house back in order.  Since most of the house was still in the garage, our piano was out, and our house fairly empty, I wanted to paint some of the rooms.  I painted Savannah's room, the hallway, the living room, and the dining area.  Then we (I) started to get the rest of the furniture and things out of the garage. We had sold some things before we went to England, like our TV center, so we didn't have anything to put the TV on.  I bought some things, like 2 armchairs, a large rug for the living room, curtain rod and curtains, and a TV stand.  The armchairs required a small amount of assembly, but they were easy.  The TV stand was a bunch of pieces though and required lots of assembly.  I wasn't sure if I could do it, but after working on it for about 4 hours, it came together.

Alex was gone the 2nd week after we were back and then most of September (conveniently...), so I got to do most of the work of getting things back together.  I saw our neighbor one day as I was hauling some things from the garage, and we joked about Alex not being around to help.  I said, "Well, I put most of the stuff in the garage last summer, so I guess I'm getting it all back out now..." 

Alex helped put the large items together that first week - the kitchen table and bunkbeds.  He pulled the old curtain rod out of the living room and put the new one in, put up a rack to hang backpacks on, and helped hang up all our pictures.  We also finally got our piano back, which has been at the home of someone in our church.  The friends who were borrowing our piano while we were gone moved in March, so they had to find someone to keep it for us until we got back.  Once we were here and started painting and such, it stayed over there.  By the time I was ready for it, Alex was out of town.  I can do a lot of things on my own, but moving a piano wasn't something I could do by myself.  I put that on Alex's list of things to do.  He finally got some guys to move it in the first week of November.

It's amazing how long it takes to get all the "little things" together that make a home, trying to put the kitchen back in order and all of the things for the bathrooms, bedrooms, clothing, and craft/office/school supplies. We left quite a bit of things in the garage and tried to bring in only the things we needed, but it was still a lot of work.

I put together some new pictures from all of our adventures last year, which are fun memories for us. Our sea glass is in a jar by the door, along with a candle that was given to us by a friend in England.  I also put together a flower photo collage in Savannah's room of pictures that were mostly from England. 



The mat in our wedding photo collage had turned yellow (it has been 18 years), so I pulled those out and made a new arrangement (bottom right).  I also like how the canvas prints of the Denver Temple turned out. 

 
Our house isn't decent enough right now for other photos (can't keep up with the laundry and clutter), but it does feel much more like home now.  We finally found all of the items we needed, got a little bit of new furniture and accessories, and got some pictures up on the wall. 

AND... we got cable TV!  It was automatically included in our maintenance fee at our condo in Houston, but since 2005, we have never had cable TV.  Nathan and I convinced Alex that we needed it to watch college sports again.  It has been nice watching sports with Nathan.  I see it as a tool for bonding with Nathan - he doesn't have too many more years at home.

Back to school

There wasn't any time to relax before school started.  We got home late Saturday night and school started on Wednesday (and Nathan had to go in on Tuesday).  We ran around on Monday morning to doctors appointments (Jared and Savannah both required immunizations and physicals) and then to the schools to turn in address verification and complete enrollment.  Nathan went and talked to a counselor and picked out classes on Monday.

The best part about the first day of school for the kids was probably wearing t-shirts, shorts, and tennis shoes!  They didn't miss their school uniforms in England.  We have kids at 3 different school this year.  Nathan is a freshman at the High School, which is within walking distance.  Jared is a 7th grader at the Junior High, to which he rides a city bus (they don't have public school buses, but the city buses are just for the school kids in the morning and afternoon.)  I didn't even drive him over on the first day, because I knew how crazy it would be at the school.  Jared didn't have any trouble taking the bus, even on the first day.  

Owen (4th), Weston (2nd), and Savannah (K) are at the elementary school, which is also within walking distance.  It wasn't a big deal for Savannah to go to Kindergarten since she did school in England last year.  She actually is ahead, being able to fulfill the K requirements already.  She knows all her colors and letters and can count to at least 100.  She writes her name and several other words.  She is already starting to read.  I think this year is going to be a fun one for her, mostly a social year.  She is so smart!  She loves her new friends.  

We decided to let Weston do a remedial year, supposedly much of the same things he was learning last year in England.  He was in the equivalent of 2nd grade there, with peers his same age.  Coming back to the same school he was at in Kindergarten and having struggled last year, we decided not to put him in 3rd grade.  We kept him with his same peer group from Kindergarten.  He seems to be doing well this year, and he has some of the prettiest writing.  He learned cursive in England, so he has some neat bubbly letters.

Owen was a little disappointed to not get in the same class with his best buddies, but he has quickly made new buddies (and still keeps up with his other friends at lunch and recess).  He got put in a 3rd/4th combo class, which I don't like as much, but it seems to work okay.  He has already charmed his teacher.  He is great at math and has the reputation for being the math whiz.  His classmates like to call him the human calculator.    

I started volunteering in the classes this year, since I don't have any kids at home during the day now.  I'm the co-room parent for Savannah's class and help in her class every Tuesday morning.  I also do the Friday folders for her class.  I help in Weston's class for a little bit on Wednesday morning (editing the kids' writing - I do follow the rules better there than I do here on my blog. I know I get a little sloppy and less formal with my writing sometimes!)  I help with Owen's class on Friday morning, leading a reading group. 

Savannah gets out 1 hour and 20 minutes before the other grades, so I have to pick her up.  But she walks to school with Owen and Weston every day.  It's so cute to see them walking together, especially when Owen is holding Savannah's hand.  He's very protective of her.  Despite our goal to arrive early and have a little play time before school starts, they often are running out the door 5 minutes before school starts.  One day I know I will miss their little bobbing heads disappearing around the corner.

Managed to get some festive pancakes made the first day of school...      


Nathan had to change his school schedule a few times the first week, due to basketball.  We had tried to send a couple of e-mails inquiring about how to participate in sports, but got no response.  Apparently it was too late to join the soccer team, so then he wanted to do basketball.  Nathan had to hunt down the basketball coach that first week.  When he was able to start practicing with the team, that took the place of PE.  But then the revised schedule was stacked with all the toughest classes for the year in one semester.  He had Physics AP, Honors Math, Spanish, and English the next semester, with only Health, Woodworking, Computer Science, and Basketball the first semester.  He switched Health and Physics around to get a better balance. 

Nathan started training with the basketball team the first week of school, but official try-outs for the team weren't until October.  He worked really hard, knowing that there were at least 20 boys wanting to make the team (with only about 12 spots).  One afternoon he came home filthy, with dirt all over his face and elbows.  Apparently they did planks on the track and all kinds of conditioning in the grass!  

After the first couple weeks of afternoon practices, they moved the practices to the early morning (due to lack of gym space) so he had to be at practice from 6:00-7:30am every morning. It was unfortunate because Nathan started going to early morning scripture study (seminary) at 6:30am at the church this year.  He wasn't able to go to that anymore.  Since basketball is his 4th period class, he started getting home about 1:45, so Nathan and I did home study for seminary together for about a month or so (from 2:00-2:50pm).  He still has some early morning practices, but not every day, so he still goes to seminary whenever he can.  

It was exciting when Nathan did make the team!  He even had an obstacle along the way, which I somewhat created for him.  Early on, there was a night for the parents to meet the coaches and ask any questions.  The only question I had was what the kids would do about their 4th period class if they didn't make the team.  The coach said they would have to find another class (which seemed odd to me that they would start another class mid-semester, but whatever).  Anyway, I think the coach took my question as somewhat of my doubting that he was good enough to play on the team or maybe not completely committed.  I'm not sure, but shortly after, the coach pulled him aside and asked Nathan if he wanted to continue until the try-outs or if he wanted to find another class.  Nathan said he wanted to keep playing of course!  I was annoyed that the coach asked him that - maybe he was looking for an easy out since some kids would have to be cut from the team. Regardless of the seeming lack of confidence from the coach, Nathan stuck with it and worked hard to make the team.  Seeing his name on the roster was a pretty exciting moment, because we weren't sure what Nathan's status was after that earlier incident.  Nathan was already at a disadvantage too, because practices had started in the summer.  He missed all the summer practices and was having to start from scratch on the conditioning and such.    
  

Weston caught up with his best buddy Brandon from Kindergarten.  They had a big hug for each other, but I missed getting a video of it.  Unfortunately, Weston and Brandon didn't get in the same class this year, but they have a "gang" at lunch and recess. 

Savannah became good friends with our neighbor, William, this year.  I snapped this picture of her waiting for him one day.  She sat out there for over an hour waiting for him to come home.  I told her he probably had something else after school that day, but she was content to sit and wait for him!

On the road again...

On Sunday August 12th, we went to the first hour of church with my parents.  Then we headed to Oklahoma.  We stopped and had dinner with Monica and her family in Dallas.  


It was late when we got to OK, but that didn't stop the excitement for seeing Kai again.  She wasn't sure of us at first, but quickly got a whiff of our smelly boys...and Weston and Owen weren't sure at first either, standing up on the stools... but soon everyone was comfortable again.    



We had a nice welcome back party, complete with cake and gifts.  We're spoiled! 


Savannah got her time with the goats, and the kids enjoyed looking at a walking stick bug.  





Going for a ride!  And playing (or maybe fighting over...) a game of Risk.


A trip to Braum's for ice cream was a necessity... yummy!
Tried to get a picture of Kai and Doggie together - they weren't cooperating very well.  I'm sure Kai misses her buddy.  But she was happy to get in the car with us. 

It was good to see Jane and Alex's parents for a few days.  We watched movies, ate lots of food, played games, hung out, and went to the movie theater.  Some of us watched Mission Impossible and some watched Christopher Robin.  We didn't have long to stay before we had to drive back to CA.  We had 2 long driving days on Friday and Saturday (Aug 17-18).  

The kids did pretty well in the car, especially when they were plugged in... Savannah enjoyed watching and singing along to a video over and over... 


We're not in England anymore... it was 112° when we hit the AZ/CA border.  Glad we were just passing through (although it was hot when we got home too, especially with no A/C in our house). 



We arrived home about 9:00pm on Saturday evening.  It was exciting to turn on the road to our house and step inside.  Finally home!  But the kids didn't have any beds, so we had to dig some mattresses and bedding out of the garage.  That took a little bit to get in there and find things.  We had to get the car out first, but the battery was dead.  We had to squeeze in and try to roll the car out onto the driveway.  We got a few mattresses out and then realized we got rid of two of them before we left.  So we tried to find an air mattress.  Owen and Weston slept on that for about a week before we got some new mattresses and got their bunk beds set up again.

We also had to run and get some groceries so we had something to eat the next day.  And we had to locate some dishes and utensils.  We were exhausted by the time we went to bed, but showed up at church in the morning.  We dug out the church clothes we had been wearing on our travels.  It was a pretty crazy time!  I did breathe a sigh of relief for a moment, knowing it was the end of a long journey that started the previous summer.  I hadn't been sure I would survive, with the process of visas, clearing out our house for renters, finding a place to live in England and establishing a home there, getting the kids in school, and all of our travels for the year.  Everyone asked us how our year was - it was great!  Full of travels and new experiences, but very tiring as well!  Stepping in our door signaled the completion of that journey, but I knew that the work was just beginning again...