Monday, January 28, 2019

Happy 15th!

Nathan is another year closer to driving... not quite there, but he is getting taller and his voice is changing.  Here is what I posted on FaceBook:  

My oldest is 15 today - happy birthday to Nathan! What did the day look like for him? Waking up at 5:30am to get ready for early morning scripture study class (at 6:30). Breakfast of eggs, bacon, and pancakes (made by me at 5:30am...)
Off to school, basketball practice in the afternoon, opened presents, dinner of scalloped potatoes, ham, peas, and rolls. Service project in the evening with the youth group. Back home for Dr Pepper floats and apple pie for dessert. (The picture with the pie just looks like a mini bonfire! ðŸ˜„)
He watched a little bit of basketball and a show on Netflix tonight. Off to bed at 10:00 so he can wake up for 6:00am basketball practice tomorrow morning.
Nathan gets himself up and ready, often walks to school and practices, is now cooking dinner about once a week, and often watches his younger siblings without complaint.
Nathan is a great kid - we love him so much!


Camping trip

We spent 2 nights camping in Big Sur after the new year.  It was a little cold and got dark early in the evening, but we had some beautiful weather during the day.  We got a spot at Plaskett Creek Campground, which was completely full.  We had another spot reserved at a campground we had been to before, but shortly before our trip, a spot opened up at Plaskett Creek.  

The kids were immediately interested in climbing a tree that was by our campsite.  

We did hot dogs and mac &cheese the first night and spaghetti the second night.  And we did s'mores and hot chocolate both nights, of course!  

Alex and the boys played a game in the tent, while I was sitting by the fire (and then snuggled down in a sleeping bag).  
  


Sporting my socks from Ireland... 

The dog is in the pen here, but she slept in the tent with us at night.  Here she is curled up while the boys were playing games. 




 The boys loved seeing the giant trucks working...

We drove to Point Lobos Reserve, for the sole purpose of going to Weston Beach again.  We had taken a picture of Weston by "his" sign in 2011 and 2014, and I wanted another photo.  It was a little annoying when we got there, because we were going to drive in and take turns sitting in the car with the dog (because no pets are allowed there).  However, they wouldn't even let us drive in the park with her, even if she wouldn't be getting out of the car.  So Alex had to stay with Kai, outside of the park, while the rest of us walked in there.  On a side note, I ended up losing my blue hat somewhere in the park.  We retraced our steps, but never found it.  Maybe someone wanted a blue Nike hat. 




The drive was really pretty - we stopped at a few look out points on the way back to our campground.  



One of the highlights was stopping to see elephant seals, which are surprisingly entertaining despite them mostly just lying there on the beach.  The boys kept waiting for them to spar - we didn't see much of anything, but they moved around a bit and we got to hear them bark.  There was one of the males that did a pretty good job of clearing out the other males.  They seemed to have their territory and didn't want any other males infringing on their space.  Several baby seals had recently been born, so we saw several of the females by their babies. 











Savannah likes singing Taylor Swift songs...


We had a good few days... but we think Jared and Owen got poison oak indirectly from the dog.  We know they didn't get into it directly, but Kai might have gotten into it.  Jared's rash went away quickly, but Owen's continued to get worse, until one morning he woke up with a swollen eye.  He got some antibiotics from the doctor, because it had become infected.  Poor Owen! 

He is doing much better now and almost fully recovered. 

Joy in the journey

We're trying to find lots of joy in our journey... despite the trials and unexpected things in life.  We lost some loved ones last year, who we miss.  It's been just over a year since we lost Alex's brother Jim.  Ringing in the new year may always have a little sadness associated with it, since it was New Year's Eve when he passed away.  We continue to find peace in the gospel of Jesus Christ and in the knowledge that we'll see our loved ones again.  We are very blessed in our daily lives and the freedoms we enjoy.  Freedom to worship how we choose, freedom from debt, freedom from addictions.  While we're not free from disappointment, sorrows and trials, we feel very blessed in our relationships and family life.  The kids are happy most of the time, we're healthy, and we're pretty spoiled with where we live and our financial status and needs being met.  There are not many things I can think of that can compensate for unhappy kids or unhappy relationships.  We are very grateful to be blessed with happy kids and relationships.    


On Christmas Day, I completed a challenge given by our prophet, President Nelson.  At the women's conference in October, he challenged us to read the Book of Mormon again by the end of the year.  He also asked us to focus on and look for all of the references to Jesus Christ.  And finally, he asked us to talk about Christ with our family and friends.  I shared my experience with reading on FaceBook and I shared my thoughts in testimony meeting at church, but I'm going to share again here.  The book is 531 pages, so it wasn't a really easy task to complete during a busy time of year.  I did complete the task however, and I had an interesting experience with the way that I marked the references.  As I read on my phone, I copied and pasted all of the references into the notes on my phone. When I finished, I sent my notes to my email (so I could get a normal sized font and print out) and printed out all the references.  I was amazed to have 39 pages worth of references to the Savior that I had found.  I'm sure I may have missed a few, but to read through nearly 40 pages of words that testified of Christ was pretty amazing.  The Book of Mormon truly is another testament of Christ, that in addition to the witness of the Bible, brings so much power and peace into my life.  

Just the other day, I was talking to Savannah about Jesus and whether he was alive.  She apparently talked about it with one of her friends at school, who didn't believe that Jesus lives.  I told her that He isn't with us right now on the Earth, but He is very much alive.  Because He lives, we will live again after we die.  And that brings so much peace and comfort to know that our time here is just a small part of the eternal plan that God has for each of us.  We're blessed with this opportunity to learn and grow and make choices and enjoy family relationships.  But that doesn't end when we die, because of the Atoning sacrifice of Jesus Christ and because of a loving Father in Heaven who sent His Son to die for us and rise again.   

The kids sing a song in primary at church called He Sent His Son.  I love the words to the song:  

  1. How could the Father tell the world of love and tenderness?
    He sent his Son, a newborn babe, with peace and holiness.
    How could the Father show the world the pathway we should go?
    He sent his Son to walk with men on earth, that we may know.
    How could the Father tell the world of sacrifice, of death?
    He sent his Son to die for us and rise with living breath.
    What does the Father ask of us? What do the scriptures say?
    Have faith, have hope, live like his Son, help others on their way.
    What does he ask? Live like his Son.
  2. Words: Mabel Jones Gabbott, 1910–2004
    Music: Michael Finlinson Moody, b. 1941
The scriptures do show us the way to live, because they testify of Jesus Christ and His life and His teachings. One of the other interesting things I gained from highlighting the references was all of the different titles and names of Jesus Christ.  I know there are other references in the Bible, but these are the ones I found in the Book of Mormon: 

Jesus
Christ
Eternal God
Lord
Son of God
Savior
Messiah
God of Abraham
God of Isaac
God of Jacob
Prophet
Redeemer
Lamb of God
Shepherd
Everlasting God
Rock
Salvation
True Vine
God of Israel
Holy One of Israel
Lord of Hosts
Father
Holy One
Mighty One of Jacob
Great Mediator
Maker
Keeper of the Gate
King of Heaven
King
Light
Immanuel
Wonderful
Counselor
The Mighty God
The Everlasting Father
Prince of Peace
Lord Jehovah
Only Begotten of the Father
Father of heaven and of earth
Son of Righteousness
Beloved Son
Only Begotten Son
Lord Omnipotent
Creator
Lord of the harvest
Great and last sacrifice
Good Shepherd
Light and life of the world
Word of truth and righteousness
Well Beloved
God of Miracles
Holy Child
Eternal Judge
Jesus Christ

Like Dad

This is what Alex does when he wants a moment to relax... take a hike.  He took Owen and Kai on a pretty Saturday morning hike shortly after Owen's birthday.  Good bonding time for them.  I think Owen is going to be just like Dad!  They both love the outdoors.   


Sunday, January 27, 2019

Like Mom

Savannah got a haircut in December.  Her hair was really long, and I'd asked her a few different times if she wanted a haircut.  She kept saying "no", because she was growing it long like Rapunzel's.  She did have a good start...but it was SO hard to brush through it.  The first picture is from earlier in the year, and is a good representation of what it often looked like when she woke up in the morning.  She also is extremely sensitive about brushing, so she would be in tears every time we brushed her hair.  It was a huge source of frustration for me, but I didn't want to force her to cut her hair.  One evening recently, she came up to me and said she wanted her hair cut just like mine.  I quickly got out the scissors and cut it before she could change her mind!  

I think it was shorter than she actually wanted, but it's really cute, and I know it will grow out fast.  At least we have a few months of tear free brushing... 


This doesn't have to do with her hair, but since this is Savannah's post, I'm including a picture for her.  In December, I gave a Ty Pluffies bear as part of a baby shower gift.  I chose a bear that is just like Savannah's bear-bear (aside from the color), because it's been great for Savannah.  She's had Bear-bear since she was born, and it's washable, so we can just throw it in the washer and dryer.  I showed Savannah the bear before I gave it away, and Savannah thought the bears were so cute together.  She was disappointed I was giving it away, but I took a picture for her.  



Christmas festivities

 We made it through another Christmas season, a busy time, but full of parties, gifts, music, spiritual thoughts, and opportunities to give.  We enjoyed the ward Christmas party, which was ugly sweater wearing, dinner and dessert, visit with Santa Claus, primary kids singing, and a performance by Nathan and Jared!  Nathan and Jared did silly things for each verse of the 12 days of Christmas.  I led everyone in singing the song while they were on stage acting out funny things for each verse.  It was a hoot!  Originally, Alex was asked to do the song, and he was willing, but when we started talking about who would do it with Alex, we thought of the boys.  We showed a You Tube video to Nathan and Jared, and they got really excited about doing it, so we let them run with it.  I thought they might chicken out, but they didn't, and did a good job with the performance!  I didn't get a chance to video them since I was leading the singing.  You'll just have to take my word for it that it was funny. 

Here's the video they were replicating

The kids are getting a little bit old for sitting on Santa's lap, but Weston and Savannah still wanted to tell Santa what they wanted for Christmas.  It was funny listening to Weston say "Attack on Laketown" (a Lego set) and Savannah wanted a Barbie Dream House.

You can't do Christmas without sugar cookies.  I made some, but the one Weston is holding with all the frosting he made at a friend's house. 


We bought items to put together 3 bags for the homeless.  Our church has been putting these together annually to deliver to a homeless shelter.  Our teacher gifts this year were "snowman soup" (with hot chocolate, marshmallows, candy canes, and chocolate).   We also made some treats (peppermint Chex muddy buddies) for friends and neighbors and baked cookies for a couple different events. 


Here are a few miscellaneous photos from Christmas - Savannah standing by a giant tree in town, Owen's church class doing a nativity (Owen is the donkey!), and me enjoying a small moment to relax in my elf socks - one of my favorite things to do is just sit back and look at the lights on the Christmas tree. I don't get very many moments during December to do that, but I did snap a photo in the rare moment.   


A couple other memorable events for me, without any photos, were the ward Christmas musical programs.  I sang a solo for our ward program - "Oh Little Town of Bethlehem".  Alex and I attended the other ward's program the following week, which was really good.  We knew several of the people that performed since our ward just split a couple months ago.  Our ward dissolved, split into 2, and then joined 2 other wards in town.  It was a little sad to see half of our fellow ward members go the other direction.  
We also had fun doing an evening of Christmas caroling with some friends.  I love the musical events associated with Christmas. 


On Christmas Eve, the kids got to open a present, which were fleece blankets.  I also wrapped up a box of  Cocoa Puffs, which Savannah had been begging for.  I never buy that kind of cereal, but they get it when they go to grandma's house.  😊  It was a nice treat for them to eat on Christmas morning while they were waiting to open presents.  We watched Miracle on 34th Street that evening.  

We had a nice Christmas Day.  The kids opened all their presents - they're really spoiled with all the new things they got from Santa, from grandparents, and Aunt Jane.  It kept them busy most of the day, playing with all their new things.  Nathan only wanted one thing - a phone, which he did get (finally - he is probably the only one at his school that didn't have a phone yet.  In his woodworking class, there is a cubby for each of the students to deposit their phone in during class.  Nathan was the only one who didn't have a phone.)  Jared also got a phone, just without any data.  Savannah didn't get her Barbie Dream House, but she was okay with the dollhouse she got. 







 
Savannah also got a large Hatchimal, which is pretty fascinating.  An animal comes in an egg and you have to hold it for a while before it hatches.  It eventually does crack the egg, and then you take it out and interact with it.  Its eyes turn different colors, indicating what its needs are (that it wants to be played with, fed, upset, etc.)  Feeding it means making it swoop down like it's flying down for food.  You can also "teach it to talk", record things you say that it will repeat.  It starts in a baby like state and "grows" into a toddler state.  The animal itself doesn't get any bigger, but the interactions get a little more involved, like being able to "talk". 





 I made crepes for lunch and we had a nice Christmas dinner of ham, scalloped potatoes, rolls, green beans, and squash. 

We did our birthday party for Jesus on the evening of Christmas Day.  I think I'm going back to Christmas Eve next year.  The excitement for new toys and being tired from waking up early took its toll on being able to focus on the Savior.  We did our traditional singing and reading about the birth of Jesus and then had cupcakes and gift we would give.  I bought a New Testament study manual for us to use this year, which we are giving as a gift to Jesus this year.  We're focusing on the New Testament in our church curriculum this year, with a new emphasis on home centered teaching.  So we need to step up our studies at home together. 



The weather was great for an outing to the school to play basketball and ride bikes during Christmas break.  Weston is still learning to ride a bike, so he needed to practice.  It was a hoot watching him try to ride a bike.  Half the time he was screaming, and despite having a large open space, he managed to run into one of the basketball goals.  "Turn! Turn!"  Crash...  it really takes talent to hit the pole with the bike...




December birthdays

Owen turned 10 this year.  We didn't get a chance to do a friend party for him yet.  We may still do one sometime in the next couple of months... December was too busy to schedule another party.  He got his requested birthday meals, opened presents, and got his own mini cake.  


I love how excited he gets opening presents! 









Savannah turned 6, and we were able to squeeze in a party for her.  She hadn't had a friend party since she was 2 (and she doesn't remember it), so I wanted to make sure we had a party for her this year.  She was really excited to invite her new friends from school and church.  On her actual birthday, she wanted McDonald's for dinner and a key lime pie. 





These are the invitations we sent out for an art themed party (minus the pictures of her).  

We did a few different art projects.  One was painting on canvas over the first letter of their name.  I taped those on with painter's tape.  It actually didn't work very well - it seeped in under the edges.  But they had fun painting it.  We did sponge painting and watercolor pictures with black glue outlines.  The watercolor pictures turned out really cute.  I should have taken some pictures of those.  


Each of the kids got to take home their artwork, apron, a watercolor set, paint palette, and some skittles and starburst.  We had carrots, fruit, cheese puffs, rainbow goldfish, and lemonade for snacks.  

The cake was fun to do - just required a little more time for baking the layers.  There were lots of ooh's and ahh's when the cake was cut.  The rainbow layers were pretty cool!   


It was a great party!  We invited all the girls in her school class, our neighbor and a few other friends.  We invited 15 kids, and 10 were able to come - that was perfect!  

Saturday, January 26, 2019

November

I get to go on quite a few field trips with the kids now that I don't have kids at home during the day.  I went on another one with Owen in November.  They got to do an art project at a museum and then have a snack at the park afterwards.  


My new calling at church is a member of the Relief Society activities committee.  We plan activities for the ladies in our ward.  We did one in November with the theme "Campfire of Faith."  It was based on the talk given in the October General Conference by Elder Gong.  Click on his name to read the talk.  In the talk, he shares an experience with learning how to do watercolor painting, in which he painted a campfire scene.  He says, " As we painted, we talked about faith—how as we face the light and warmth of a campfire, we leave the darkness and uncertainty behind us—how on sometimes long, lonely nights, our campfire of faith can give hope and assurance. And the dawn does come. Our campfire of faith—our memories, experiences, and heritage of faith in God’s goodness and tender mercies in our life—has strengthened us through the night."  He then shares 5 ways we can kindle our campfire of faith.

For our activity, we had 5 ladies share these 5 ways of strengthening our faith (I volunteered myself to talk about the 4th point, to "...establish regular patterns of righteous living that deepen faith and spirituality.")  After the talks, we enjoyed chatting while eating s'mores.  We also had everyone bring something to display, either that they had made or something they were grateful for.  It was a gratitude and creativity display.  I was too busy chatting to remember to take any pictures of the display, but it had things like quilts, family photos, and scrapbooks.  

I decided to use my creativity and try my hand at watercolor painting.  I needed a large poster with our theme on it for decorations.  My first try on a smaller piece of watercolor paper was a fail.  (I've heard that FAIL means First Attempt In Learning?)  I almost gave up, but thought I'd give it another try.  I sketched out my picture in pencil, using an online photo as an example, and then tried the painting again.  I decided not to try to make the dark night sky.  I think that's what didn't turn out well in the first picture.  I was pleased with this 2nd one.  Maybe I'll try painting again sometime.  


I made some letter size S'more pictures that I framed and used as decoration as well.

Here is the dessert table (pre-smores), with a campfire I made for one of the kids school functions a while back.  Everything turned out pretty cute, and the spiritual part of the night was good too.  Success!  

Jared participated in after school cross country this fall.  They had some small meets with a few of the local schools.  They only ran twice a week (one practice and one race), so it wasn't a big time commitment and it wasn't very effective in getting faster and building endurance.  But it was good for Jared to get out there and run a little bit.  I think running is one of those sports that requires a more consistent effort, at least 4-5 times a week to really see improvement, so practicing once and having a meet once a week isn't a very good program, but it's better than sitting at home on the couch!

Shortly after soccer season, we switched right over to basketball season.  In fact, we nearly missed the deadline for sign-ups, because I forgot about it.  I remembered a couple of days before the mandatory evaluations.  We got the last couple of spots available, but had to pay late fees.  Jared and Owen are both playing on community teams, and Nathan made the "frosh" team (freshman and sophomores).  I think it's been a humbling year for Nathan, because he is used to getting more playing time.  And he was really good compared to the kids in England, always being used as an example for doing lay ups and such during PE.  He sits the bench most of the time, but he does well when he gets in.  He has a nice shot, and has shown he can make the three point shot.  They had some tournament games before the official season started.  One of Nathan's most memorable games was getting the winning shot during one of the tournament games.  His team was down by 1, and Nathan made a nice little floater with about a minute left to put his team up.  They were able to hold that lead.  He got 10 or 11 points, his most of the season, in one of those early games.  Their team is undefeated in league play.  They had a really intense close game with one of the in-town rivals and pulled off the win. 

Owen's team is doing pretty well.  They have a superstar player on the team that gets most of the points.  Owen did score a basket in one of the games.  What's funny is upon congratulating him at the end of the game for scoring, he said, "I scored?"  He didn't even remember he made a basket until I showed him the video of it.  That pretty much sums up Owen on playing - he tries hard, but isn't always aware of where he's supposed to be or what's going on.  He is improving though. 

Jared's team is also undefeated in his league.  Jared is developing his shot pretty well too, as he can also make three pointers.  He made 3 three-pointers in one of his games!  We offered a little extra motivation for the boys - if Owen makes a basket, we all get ice cream, and if Jared makes a 3 pointer, we all get ice cream.  Up until the game this evening, we have enjoyed ice cream after all of Jared's games.  He knows that he can't just launch up the ball every time he gets it, but he isn't afraid to take the shot when he's open.  He was pretty bummed out that he didn't make one this evening though.


We had Thanksgiving meal with our friends Donald and Julie (the ones who do the annual Halloween party).  It was nice to just prepare some side items (although not as nice for having leftovers...)  I made rolls, green bean casserole, sweet potatoes, fried chicken drumsticks, and brought a couple of store bought pies.  They prepared a fancy table setting, complete with personalized turkeys with chocolates.  We had lots of pies for dessert, and everything was yummy!  


Weston's favorite was the rolls - I'm not sure how many of those he ate!  Nathan got a huge piece of apple pie.  We weren't sure if he would be able to finish it, but he cleaned his plate.

Alex took the kids to the beach the day after Thanksgiving.  They had fun chasing a tumbleweed.  


We put up the Christmas tree a couple of days after Thanksgiving.  I love looking at our tree with lights - it's so magical.



We still have the same tree we started with - our 18th year with this little tree.  I was noticing that Nathan is taller than our tree this year.  I went back to see if I had some more pictures of him standing by the tree.  I did find some - the earliest one I found was from 2006, when he was almost 3 years old.  It's not a very good shot, not showing the full tree, but it gives an idea of how much he's grown in the last 15 years.  Here he is at nearly 3, 9, and 15.


I think it might be time to get a new tree, but there is something sentimental about our little tree.  I think it's a reminder of our humble beginnings, and it reminds me of the humble beginning of the birth of our Savior too.  He wasn't born in a big fancy home, but in a manger.  On a random side note, my wedding ring brings similar feelings.  I sometimes look at my ring and think it would be nice to have a fancier ring.  But it also serves as a reminder of where we began and how Alex used all that he had at the time to buy my ring.  Maybe I'll get another ring someday.  Maybe we'll get another tree someday.  But both are reminders of humble beginnings and have sentimental value.