Wednesday, August 31, 2022

And then there was Covid...

We had church prom (Saturday), Jared's patriarchal blessing (Sunday), Nathan's mission call opening (Tuesday), and Jared's birthday (Wednesday) right before we found out we had Covid (Thursday).  I'm not sure where we got it (but maybe prom, because most of Nathan's group got it, except the ones that had already had it).  I wasn't feeling great on Sunday, but not enough to keep me down.  I went to church and all our activities the next few days.  Nathan had a yucky day on Jared's birthday.  The day after Jared's birthday, Alex woke up with some sniffles and realized he couldn't taste his breakfast... that was when he got a positive Covid test.  Some of the kids had already gone to school, but those still home tested as well.  Alex, Nathan, and I tested positive.  Jared tested negative and went to school.  Later, Owen, Weston, and Savannah took a test and Savannah tested positive.  However, she didn't have any symptoms and never did get any.  She felt fine, but since she tested positive, she had to stay out of school a minimum of 5 days and couldn't go back until she got a negative test (which wasn't until about day 7).  She missed a whole week of school.  Although she missed some fun things at school, it wasn't too bad staying home "sick".  She got to watch movies, hang out with Mom, and even get lunch from Wendy's one day.  It wasn't too bad not being able to go to our activities - I had been pretty stressed about all the things I had to get done.  It was kind-of nice to play the "Covid card" and have a break - the sickness was mild.  Unfortunately, we had to postpone Jared's birthday party though.  Nathan was lucky to be done before graduation and the end of the year things.  Jared and Owen stayed Covid-free until after Nathan's graduation and until after Baba and Papa's visit.  Weston was the only one who never got Covid.  We were able to make all the big events with the timing of Covid - I was really thankful for that.  


16th Birthday

The day after Nathan's mission call opening was Jared's birthday.  He requested German pancakes and bacon for breakfast, with potato casserole, ham, broccoli, and rolls for dinner.  Since we had a party planned for Jared that coming Saturday, we didn't do a cake.  We did have Dr. Pepper floats though.


 

Mission Call

It seems like Nathan has been waiting for a while for his mission call.  In reality, from the time he put in his application to when he received the call was less than 2 weeks - one week from when the stake president submitted the application.  That part of the process was fast!  It was more of a process to do the necessary doctors and dentist appointments, several interviews, and a lot of paperwork.  We had made the doctor's appointment back in December, which wasn't available until April, so he had to wait until that appointment was done before submitting the application.  The day his call came in was both exciting and nerve-wracking.  He saw that the call was in, with a link in his email that he simply had to click on.  He waited though until he could open it with friends and family.  So he didn't know where he was going until he read the call.  We all made our guesses where he'd get called to, and then it was time to read the call.  Owen and Nathan's best friend Shawn guessed correctly.  (I had made a few guesses - Romania, Boston Massachusetts, and Argentina.  What's interesting is that two of Nathan's good friends, Shawn and Devan, also received their calls this summer.  For Shawn's call, I also guessed Boston, but he got called to Mesa, Arizona.  Devan was the 3rd to receive his call, and I still guessed Boston.  He DID get called to Boston!  I had a feeling one of them was going there.)  

So exciting!  Nathan had most of the summer to work and prepare for his mission.  His call came on May 17th and his home MTC began on August 8th.


Here is a portion of him reading the call:




 

Patriarchal Blessing

 


On Sunday May 15th, Jared received his patriarchal blessing.  It was a great spiritual experience - the spirit was so strong.  Nathan came with us and got to listen in on the blessing.  We heard some similar things as in Nathan's blessing - many leadership and missionary opportunities ahead.  We heard many of his gifts and potential as well, which we already know that he has amazing things in store.  He's a spiritual leader already, with great faith and commitment to the gospel of Jesus Christ.  



Mother's Day Part 3

On the Friday before Mother's Day I flew to TX for the weekend.  I got in about 10:30pm.  We spent most of Saturday at soccer games.  We went to Hailey, Jaden, Noah, Mason, Luke, and Hazel's games.  It was really hot all day - in the 90's.  Jaden scored a goal in his game, and Hazel scored about 3 goals in her game.  We were watching games from about 8:00am-2:30pm.  We had dinner at What-a-Burger on Saturday evening, and then we hung out at Audrey and Sam's after dinner.  

On Sunday, we went to Daniel and Ashley's ward for sacrament meeting to listen to Ashley's talk.  She talked about the Savior and lemon bars.  She did a great job!  Alison and Micah and family were there that weekend too.  It was actually a surprise trip - Ashley and Audrey didn't know that Alison and I were coming.  Anyway, we went to my mom and dad's ward after sacrament meeting and stayed for the 2 hours of their church.  They had a great dessert buffet for the moms during the 2nd hour.  The primary kids sang a song as well.  

After church, I hung out at Ashley's house for a little bit, getting to meet their new puppy.  We did dinner and celebrated Ashley's birthday back at Mom and Dad's house.  It was hilarious when Ashley was trying to do the confetti popper!

On Monday, Mom, Audrey, Alison, Ashley, and I got to go out for lunch.  We went near the Riverwalk to a place called "Down on Grayson".  We also wandered around the Hotel Emma.  Fun outing!  I headed out on Monday evening.  It was a quick, but much needed, trip for me - so great to spend the weekend with my parents and all my sisters! 








 

Mother's Day Part 2

On April 25th, my mom called and asked if I wanted to come to TX for Mother's Day.  Of course I did!  Checked with Alex to make sure I was good to go.  I wanted to bring a Mother's Day gift, but I wasn't sure what to do.  It needed to be small and go through the airport.  On Tuesday May 3rd, I decided to put together a little photo book.  I had a song running through my mind that I thought I could use for my project's theme.  There's a primary song called "I Will Be What I Believe."  I love the words and the message of standing true despite what's going on in the world around us.  I feel like our family has done well staying true to their beliefs, and I wanted to come up with a phrase for each grandchild that went along with that.  I also wanted to highlight their unique personalities or talents, but it was a little hard to come up with the perfect rhyming phrase and a picture.  I used the actual words of the song for the first pictures of the adult kids.  The poem for the grandkids doesn't stick with the rhythm of the song, so you wouldn't be able to sing the tune with the words, but it turned out pretty good.  I spent a day just trying to gather and print photos of all the grandkids and another day coming up with the poem.  I finished it on Thursday evening, in time to take with me on Friday the 6th.  

















 I guess the page with Eden I took a blurry photo of, but the original page is good! Here is the song if you want to hear the tune to "I Will Be What I Believe".  


Tuesday, August 30, 2022

Mother's Day Part 1

On the first Wednesday in May, the priests quorum did a dinner and dessert for their moms.  They did a similar thing last year (except due to Covid we didn't do the dinner and just took dessert home).  This year was a full dinner with salad, chicken, grilled veggies, and chocolate cake.  I loved the food, but my favorite part was the speeches given by each of the boys about their moms.  I got to listen to TWO speeches about me.  I was touched by all the tributes.  Nathan and Jared both talked about me being there for all their games and races.  Jared had calculated how many hours I spent driving to his track meets for only a short amount of race time.  I don't remember his estimate, but for just the track meets, it would have been somewhere near 15 hours of driving time for about 32 total minutes of race time.  I did spend a ton of time this year driving to basketball games and cross country and track meets.  I don't like to miss their events.

Savannah and Weston gave me some Mother's Day gifts they'd made at school right before I left for TX.  Owen made a touching video compilation of photos, music, and thoughts about me from Alex and each of the kids.  He did a good job on it.  When I returned from TX, Owen and Alex made breakfast for me and I opened some other gifts. 









Owen's original video is too big to post, but here are the individual clips. 





Teacher gifts


 Those leftover paper flowers from Savannah's birthday party came in handy for the school teacher gifts.  I didn't have much time to put anything together, but I popped some chocolates in a cup and topped with the cute flowers.  Not too bad!  

Spring School Stuff

Alex and I got to go to the elementary school for the first time during the 2021-22 year in April for an open house.  We weren't allowed on campus this year, even outside (so no end of the year pictures with teachers and friends).  I should have taken the teacher pictures at the open house... anyway, we did visit Weston and Savannah's classrooms and saw some of their projects.  I helped Savannah with the Chumash tomol (canoe), which was pineneedles hot-glued to cardboard... glad I'm done with the 4th grade Chumash projects now 😀.  I enjoyed reading their poems - Savannah does have a big heart and Weston uses his hands a lot to build, write, and draw.  Weston became known as the class cartographer because he likes to draw maps.  He tried to draw and sell some maps - not too many takers for buying them, but I think his teacher bought one.  Friends asked him to draw maps for them a lot.  Weston's teacher said, "His love for geography is contagious and I hope he never gives up his dream to become a cartographer." 

In math during the graphing, geometry, and volume unit, Weston had to put together a 3-dimensional town called "Polyhedraville."  They had to calculate surface area and create geometric shapes for their town - interesting project.  
 

Weston and Savannah had crazy hair or hat day one day in April.  Savannah's hair wasn't too crazy, but Weston chose to wear multiple hats.  He's a hat guy anyway. 

Owen had an interesting 7th grade year.  During the fall semester, I found out that in English they were reading a book that I thought was pretty violent - the "Outsiders".  I arranged for Owen to read a different book than his class was reading.  In the spring semester, I opted him out of the sex education class because I wasn't comfortable with the gender fluidity, the condoms on bananas, and some other things in the curriculum.  Owen's friends reported that during the sex Ed class, they split the kids up into 2 teams - the penises and vaginas... I'm not sure what the purpose of that was or what kind of game they were playing... but I'm glad Owen didn't have to participate in that!  Owen joined a PE class during that time (there was one other kid whose parents pulled them out as well, so he wasn't the only kid with an overprotective parent...).  I also ended up sending an e-mail to the principal concerning an instructional video they were going to use to teach kids about racism.  Three of the 4 videos were fine, but I wasn't comfortable with the promotion of BLM in one of the videos.  While I support black lives and finding ways to combat racism, I'm not comfortable with the BLM movement and the group's agenda, such as using violence and rioting as a form of protest, defunding or abolishing the police, calling cops racist, ending capitalism, or their views on the nuclear family.  The video didn't highlight much of their agenda, but did make it look like a positive movement worth joining and had protest signs that said "Stop killing us" (talking about the police).  Anyway, I asked the principal to re-consider using that video as a teaching tool.  I've had to become more aware of the curriculum in the schools lately.  Luckily, Owen comes home and talks to me about things he doesn't understand or questions about certain things, so we've had some good conversations.  But I'm not sure that other kids are having similar conversations at home, so some of the curriculum concerns me.  Owen is getting used to being the one to "stand alone" in some things at school though.    

One of Owen's fun things for the year was participating in choir.  He went to 0 period for two mornings a week for that class.  Luckily we did a carpool with his friend Becca and only had to drive over one morning a week.  The choir did their spring concert, which sounded really good (nice they didn't have to sing in masks like they did for the winter concert).  Owen's friend RJ (pictured below) convinced him to try out for the song and dance group for 8th grade.  He had to step out of his comfort zone to do a solo during the try-outs.  He sang a version of "Israel, Israel God is Calling".  The teachers hadn't heard that one before, but he sang well enough to make the group called Outburst.  (He might be regretting that now that he's started the class this fall - he found out to make an A in the class, he has to choose a song from a musical to sing as a solo in front of the class!  It will be good for him...) 

Maybe Owen can get some singing lessons from Savannah... she sang a solo for her class at the end of the year.  She sang "Part of your World" from the Little Mermaid in front of her class a cappella (no accompaniment).  I didn't get to hear it, but heard she did a good job.  She's pretty brave!  She got one of the monthly awards (holding up a certificate in the picture below), which I think was for creativity.  Her teacher said, "In all she does she provides an insightful, creative, and thoughtful new perspective."  

Most of the time, I had no idea what Nathan and Jared were doing in their classes.  Jared did bring home a painting of Weston that he did in his class - pretty awesome job!  I framed it and it's hanging in Weston's room.  Jared had a really busy spring semester.  Along with the freehand drawing class and Track, he took honors English, AP Chemistry and AP World History.  The AP classes were pretty time consuming.  One amazing thing about Jared is that he had decided he wouldn't do homework on Sundays anymore, starting in the spring semester.  It turned out to be a tough semester, and although he may have been tempted to do work on Sundays, he kept his commitment.  That meant that he worked harder on other days of the week to make sure he was done by Sunday.  I know there were evenings (such as Friday and Saturday nights) when we wanted Jared to watch a movie with us, but he was busy doing his work.  I know it was a sacrifice for him to stick with his commitment, but he said that Sundays were truly a day of rest for him.  He knew he was always going to have that day off and not have to worry about any school things those days.  He was blessed for his faith and commitment, was able to get his work done, and pass those classes with flying colors.  He also passed the AP exams for those classes.  (I had a conversation with Jared about homework on Sundays, and I told him that he had more faith than I did when I was in high school.  I hadn't made the commitment to not work on Sundays until college.  He's experiencing faith and blessings early in his youth.)  

Nathan had a pretty low-key last semester of high school.  His toughest class was AP English.  Along with that, he had Basketball, Sculpture, AP Computer Science, and Teacher's Aide.  He was an aide for our church friend and cross country coach.  He got to sit in the back of the class and work or do whatever he wanted to.  He sometimes listened to podcasts during that class.  After basketball season ended, Nathan did start working in the afternoons.  He'd come home around 2:15 and work a few hours before dinnertime.  He had a job at a machine shop, polishing little tubes for computers.  I'm not sure exactly what that involved, but he got a base hourly pay and could earn more for polishing extra tubes.  Nathan also worked some Saturdays on the side for an individual who needed help cleaning, organizing, and inventorying a house full of things that belonged to the person's mom.  So school wasn't hard for Nathan, but he was busy with work and church.  Nathan served as a ward missionary at church, and he had some good conversations about the church with some people at work.   

Despite some challenging things this year, the kids all had another successful year!







 This photo combination goes well together, don't you think?  



("Never underestimate the power of a good kiss") 


I'm adding this to the post as future reference - notes from my reading of "The Outsiders."  This is the email I sent to the teacher regarding the book:  "Owen read the first chapter, and I read the whole book today.  He would like to read another book, and I don't really want him reading this one.  Just the first couple of chapters talked about getting jumped, stealing, gang fights, a friend whose face was cut up/bruised/and half conscious, getting a blade held up to his throat and a gash on his head, everyone smoked to relax, hunting for action through booze/girls/fighting, father always beating a kid up, belting a stranger, picking up greasy broads, pulling out switchblades, beating heads in, talking about wanting to kill themselves... and then the attempted drowning, the fatal stabbing, pulling a knife on the doctor, the rumble with broken ribs/broken nose/blood streaming down face, and the triumph of getting shot by the cops..."

I think we can find a better book for 7th graders to read?   

Monday, August 29, 2022

Fun with friends


Occasionally I go out to lunch with friends.  Three of the ladies in the picture with me also had a graduating senior this year.  It was fun to get out of the house.  

In April, we went to a high school musical, Beauty and the Beast.  Nathan's friend Addison was the Beast.  We didn't even know he could sing, but he did a great job! 

All the graduating seniors at church got together and took some pictures for the upcoming graduation party, which happened the end of May. 


Prom

Nathan went to the school prom with a group of friends.  Apparently, if you don't have a girlfriend, you don't really just ask a date to go.  He had fun hanging out with his friends.  He went to church prom with a date, Abi.  His friends Shawn, Nathan, and Devan had dates as well.  They went to a fancy group dinner before going to the dance.  Prom was was at the Ronald Reagan Library, which was a really cool setting for the dance.  He had a really good time!    




Easter 2022

Nathan had to get a suit to take a photo to send in with his mission application.  It was good timing for Easter and Prom as well.  Easter baskets were color-themed this year, with snacks, candy, journals, shirts, sleeping mats, and such of the same color in their baskets.  We had cinnamon rolls, bacon, and our colored eggs for breakfast.  After church, we took some family photos and then had friends over to celebrate Easter dinner with us.  Their tradition is to make and decorate a bunny cake, so they brought that over for the kids to decorate.  I tried folding bunny napkins this year to add to the festivity.